Saturday, February 22, 2014

Birthday Blog

It is my beautiful sister's birthday today. It is times like these when I really really miss home the most. I wish I could be closer to my family, but grad school sent me to the complete other side of the country. In the style of Allie Brosh's Hyperbole-and-a-half, I made this birthday blog for her. It is crazy how time flies. I cannot believe she is already in college, a woman. Whoa. Here's to you little sister!
















Monday, February 3, 2014

A short explanation of the grad school application and interview process

Tomorrow is prospective student day. Yaaay! This is particularly exciting because it means I get to “host” a student. All the prospective students (16 in total) are staying in a hotel, so my sole responsibility is to make sure I get my prospective student to the right place at the right time. I am determined. I know I struggle with this in my daily life (you know, showing up to things on time), but you know what? Challenge accepted.

So given that this is happening, I thought I would take the time to discuss how the application and interview process for graduate school works (at least at the places I interviewed at) for anyone interested in applying for graduate school (or anyone who is curious how the process works).

The application process:

I think this is the hardest part because this is completely up to the individual applying: what they decide to emphasize, who they ask for recommendations, etc.. Every school is different and requires different materials, but all seem to ask for letters of recommendation, unofficial or official transcripts, and a personal statement of some sort. All of my applications were due some time between mid to late December.

If you are applying to grad school, you should probably start the personal statement at least a month or two before the applications are due to account time for staring at a blinking cursor bar, time agonizing how to begin, and time for Googling sample personal statements. After a few weeks of this, write/edit your personal statement masterpiece in one sitting in the middle of the night.. right before a big test.. and don’t stop, not even for a bathroom break.. we cannot choose when inspiration comes to us.

In another couple of weeks, once all application materials are in order, you are ready to submit. At this moment you will feel panicked. Like you must recheck all materials just in case you missed something. Then check a few more times. Pushing the submit button is the hardest part because that means everything that is in your control in regards to your acceptance is out of your hands now. But also extremely relieving, because it is out of your hands now. YOU ARE FREE!

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After pressing submit on a grad school application
(Credit: whatshouldwecallgradschool)

The interview:

It has been a couple months, you probably have moved on with life. Gone from moments of anxiety fearing you will be rejected from every school to just saying “screw it.. it is out of my hands”. But then when you are totally not expecting it, you will likely get your first stomach dropping email: Invitation for an interview. When I got my invitation to interview I nearly cried. Someone wants me! Yay! But only maybe! But still Yay!

Interviews are totally covered by the school, transportation, hotel, they often provide food at their events, etc. Unfortunately, all of my interviews happened during the week. Between interviews and recruitment (which is a much more fun trip given this means they have already accepted you and are inviting you back to convince you to come) I missed a lot of school. Sometimes it is only an interview, or only recruitment; it really just depends on the department or school. I had two VERY different interview experiences.

I interviewed at Yale and at the University of Illinois. I had a blast at the University of Illinois. It was spread over three days, I stayed with a current grad student in the lab, had one interview with my prospective professor (who was very approachable) and a few other interviews with people in the lab. I spent the rest of the time getting to know the area, went to some local bars with other prospectives, played Settlers of Catan. It was laid back and welcoming.

Contrastingly, Yale’s interview process was stressful. I flew in at 12:30 am from a cross country flight. Stayed at a hotel, but didn’t sleep, got up at 6:30 am to catch the 7:30 am bus ride to Yale. What made this one different was that it wasn’t just one professor (like at UofI) that chooses you. You have to impress the entire department. I had five back to back interviews with Yale professors. Then we went to a reception and talked some more (I understand this was supposed to feel laid back, but no chairs.. after all that interviewing/tour walking..) they gave us beer and we continued to try to put on our A game as we mingled with professors. Then more mingling at a dinner, then at 10 pm or so, we were invited to go to the bars with the grad students. I was too exhausted to go to the bar.. it might have been really fun, but I was so drained.

So basically, interviews vary from school to school and between departments. Hopefully yours is a relaxed one.

(In total, I applied to 4 schools. I did not get into two of them, but I got into both Yale and University of Illinois. It was a very hard choice for me to choose which to go to, but I decided to go with the professor whose interests aligned most with mine, at Yale.)

Keeping all this in mind, I feel bad for my prospective student tomorrow. It is going to be a jammed packed day! Hopefully I can make this a less stressful experience for my prospective student.. and get him places on time. That would be good.